Toxic Husband

I am so tired and so drained from this toxic marriage. There is so love no appreciation or support. I’m a SAHM to 3 kids and if I say anything about being mentally drained and tired I’m just complaining and need to grow up bc that’s my job as a wife and mom.... The only reason I stay is bc my son has a health condition that makes him immunocompromised and therefore I can’t just leave to my parents they have too many people there. Money is also an issue I can’t work bc I take him to all his appointment 4-5 times a week. He won’t leave bc “he pays the bills” I don’t I just stay home and do “nothing” all day. Just need to vent bc I have no one I’m my personal life I can lean on or trust. Here’s our conversation over a burrito I couldn’t make bc I was running late to my sons appointment.....