What am I doing with my life ?

I met this guy and he’s really cool although he just had a breakup and I want to be there for him.

Last night he wanted me to be with him so I spent the night at his place. We ended up having sex. I didn’t mean for it to happen it just happened. Anyways we woke up this morning and took a shower together and then I left because we both had work. He kept waking up in the middle of the night telling me he was worrying about life and etc. he was talking about marriage ? I don’t think he was talking about marrying about me I think it was about his ex. He talks about it so much and I have no right to get upset because he’s clearly hurting. She cheated on him but earlier on in the relationship he cheated on her. Apparently he got her pregnant which I just found out tonight. I told him I think we should just be friends but idk apart of me feel as if I messed up? He talks about the situation all the time. She blocked him on everything apparently and I think he made a fake account to view her stuff idk? He either wants me to come over and of course I’m not to hesitate about it because he needs to heal.

While I’m writing this he’s currently on FaceTime with me sleeping. I just don’t want to get hurt. I can’t be his ex you know ? For example he sent me messages of their conversation. I didn’t ask but In one of the messages “he said I didn’t want to leave.

Should I call it quits ?

I feel so bad because he needs someone right now.

Tonight when he told me about the pregnancy he seemed so sad because he really wanted to have a baby. Mind you this morning he didn’t even have a condom on and he was about to put his penis in me with Cum on his penis. He’s such an amazing guy but I don’t want kids or marriage right now and I don’t want him to just use me because he’s hurting.

Should I just stay away ? Or just strictly be friends.

He also said her name is on the lease ? I mean they have been dating for a long time. She doesn’t live her but I don’t know if I should be there because that was suppose to be their apartment together ?

I just feel sad.