What to do if you're husband is lagging on getting snipped ✂️

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I've asked him to a year ago while I was pregnant and he agreed. I've reminded him several times, I shouldn't have to keep asking. Still hasn't done it or made an appointment and I'm quite annoyed.
I'm not getting on birth control again ever nor am I getting my tubes tied. It's fair for him to do since I carried and pushed out his big head children
At this point I just stopped giving him any 🤷🏾‍♀️

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Sorry but you can't force him. If he is hesitant, he's probably having doubts. And that's perfectly fine, it's HIS body. Use condoms.

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People need to stop acting like birth control doesn’t have side effects, and horrible ones at that. I would just stop having sex. Him having a "surgery " equivalent to having the implant put in is a lot safer than you having surgery. You already had your turn of being responsible by taking birth control I assume. So now if he wants sex it’s his turn.

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His body, his choice. If he doesn't want to get a vasectomy and you don't want to get your tibes tied or go on bc (all of which is 100% valid on both your parts), do the responsible thing and use condoms.

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His big head children 😂😂. I would simply ask him if he still wanted to get the procedure done. If yes, ask if he would like help setting up an appointment. If no, we'll then there you go.

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It doesn't look as if he actually wants to do it and since you can't make him do to his body what he doesn't want you will have to find a different solution. Either use condoms or pull out if you trust that.

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You need to talk to him and see why he hasn’t done it, he may have changed his mind and that’s ok you can’t force him but you do need to talk to him again

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Damn not the big headed children- anyways it’s his body he can decide what he wants.

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It’s his body, his choice. You don’t want anymore kids, YOU tie or remove your tubes. I had mine removed and it wasn’t bad at all. 
Plus, I see so many stories of vasectomy babies. No thanks.

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His body, his choice. But also my body, my choice. I like my IUD and I didn’t mind condoms back in the day so I’d use those. If I wasn’t comfortable with those and did not want to get pregnant then I wouldn’t have sex.

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You can only control you so either use condoms or don’t have sex. I understand why you’re upset but there’s still the principle of bodily autonomy. You agreeing to have kids wasn’t acquiring points to force him.🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

What to do if you're husband is lagging on getting snipped ✂️

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