UPDATE: Bf hung out at female friends apt til 6am

Update: he confirmed he was alone there and stayed til 6 they “did nothing but played the switch and drink” he says. but he lied to me about it all.

Original post below:

My bf (of 4 years) went out last night around 10pm and I asked where he was. He said “hanging at the apartment playing the switch” Sounds like he meant his place right? Nope. so I said “oh urs?” And he replied “my switch or my apartment?” I asked both, and he said “my friend ____’s apartment u met her before. There’s some people here.” Which I have not met her.

At 5:30 am I woke up to use the bathroom and checked his location he was still there. I texted him and he didn’t reply. I FaceTimed him to see where he was. I saw him at an apartment that wasn’t his so I hung up.

I told him why I was upset and he says he was just hanging out she has a game set too nothing was going on with “her”. What happened to the “other people”?? He got home at 6am. So 10:30pm-6am at his female friends apartment, whom I’ve never met.

How does everyone feel about this because I think it’s ridiculous??? Imagine if I did that with a co worker he didn’t know, hung out at his place til 6am. Small group or alone, we aren’t 18 years old to be acting like this. We are 24.