I’d have to provide for a grown man?

I 21F have been seeing a 29M since October.

We are not officially dating due to his issues.

To put it bluntly, his life is a train wreck. He lives with another man. This roommate never provides his side of the rent leaving him often broke as he’d have to pay the 1300 rent by himself.

Recently his car broke down to which we found out it’ll be more to fix than it’s worth so he’s going to have to sell it.

His landlord recently sold their apartment to someone who has decided they are going to double the rent and essentially told the two to either sign their new lease or get out at the end of March.

He also recently quit his job because he claims he won’t walk there for the small amount of hours they’re offering.

Before I knew about the car situation and before we knew about the landlord selling the place, I was throwing around the idea of getting a place with him as he was wanting out of there before all this.

I wanted to get a two bedroom so we each had our own room and space away from each other.

I live alone in a small one bedroom apartment with three cats but over the winter I’ve started to highly dislike my apartment for lack of my landlord keeping up with it. Our pipes freeze very often and we have roaches now.

My apartment is dirt cheap which is uncommon here and a normal one bedroom here would be stretching my budget a little thin. A two bedroom with him wouldn’t affect my budget compared to here if spilt 50/50.

My lease is not up until May.

I have a job/nice car and am very financially stable.

Now he wants to move in with me during April and try to get a job where I work to which I would have to drive him to/from. I don’t know how I feel having to take care of a grown man. It feels very stressful and I honestly don’t want to share this small space with him. I don’t even know where we’d put his items. I’m scared he won’t be able to get his life together and I’ll be trapped with him. I’m not sure what to do because he doesn’t have friends/family to stay with if I say no. I get overstimulated if I stay around someone for more than three days so I can’t imagine staying with someone here for a couple months and working with them. I don’t know what to say to him or do. I wanted to get a place with him but that’s when I thought he would have a car and a job plus space away from him.