What would you do?

EDIT: i can see i didn't give enough information before so let me try to break it down better so you all can understand better as to why i felt the way i felt and acted the way i acted. Ill do them in bullet points.

1. Job quitting- back in december we did a week seperation because things were not good between us at all. I wanted to keep my job. I was adamant about wanting to keep working because i know what happens when we struggle just the slightest with money. He panics. He on the other hand was adamant about wanting me to quit to stay home and be a wife and mom to my little girl. Kept telling me that he wants to be the one bringing in the money while i do the cooking, cleaning, and mothering because he felt it would take most of the stress off of me and him if we didn't have to worry about 2 jobs. I fought him in the beginning but he kept bringing it up every time we talked that week so i took a chance even though i didn't want to and quit. Yes i regret it and wish i would have never quit but here we are.

2. He checked his account because he always does. It's not that we don't have enough to eat out that he has to constantly check his account but a habit. As far as money issues i do the budgeting. He will tell me what his check is every payday and i pay the bills with it along with groceries and stuff. I don't ever ask him for money or for things i want. i go without simply because i didn't work for that money and will not spend it unless given permission.

3. I was frustrated that he kept scoffing and making rude comments even after apologizing the right way the first time. I didn't blurt out the "ill never ask for anything again" comment until after my 4th im sorry i didn't know they raised the prices. I shouldnt have said that but in the moment my anxiety was so bad because of the way he was acting towards me. I felt inadequate to him for a simple thing. Also i do cook at home 98% of the time to save money and to make sure him and our daughter don't just eat junk all the time.

So yesterday my husband decided he wanted tacos for dinner and knowing i don't eat tacos proceeds to tell me i can have whatever i want. So i tell him i want my favorite japanese restaurant and he even checks his bank account( he works, i don't due to kinda being forced into quitting by him) to make sure he has enough money which he did. Tells me i can get it, even goes with me to get it. Mind you i haven't been to this restaurant in awhile so i had no idea they jacked the price up by $2. Well i order my food and the lady says it's going to be $14 and some change. My husband hands me his wallet so i can pay and as soon as i paid we pull up away from the ordering window and he starts saying "well if I'd have known you were going to get a gourmet meal i wouldn't have told you i wanted tacos" and scoffs. He starts getting upset with me and continues to scoff and make little remarks. Well before i could stop myself i blurted out "i'm sorry, i didn't know they raised the prices, i won't ask for anything again". Then he looks at me and says "that's not what i mean" sarcastically. Like in that moment i didn't feel like his wife, his equal. I felt inadequate and like a burden because i asked for one thing when i normally don't ask him for anything money, materialistic, or otherwise. How would you feel if this happened to you? Am i the childish one for feeling hurt? I'm sure i sound crazy because i mean it's food but at the same time this isn't the first time this has happened with him making me feel like this even over stuff that's not about food.