Am I wrong for not liking my best friends behavior so much that I kinda cut her off?⁉️⁉️⁉️

She never did anything to me. It’s what I witnessed her do to another person that put a bad taste in my mouth and made me want nothing to do with her.

So at her 22nd birthday party I show up and so do like 5 other girls. We drank, sang, put on makeup and just had fun.

In the back of the room the whole time was her boyfriend of 8 years just… watching her like she was the sun and the moon and every star in the sky. I knew he found us all annoying but he wanted to be there for her birthday. He stayed all night and even slept over. He bought all of the alcohol and ice cream and even ordered dinner.

What I would fucking do for a man that looked at me like that on god I would kill someone for it.

She’s telling me stuff like “he won’t give me a baby. He won’t give me a house. My eggs are dying and I want what I want, NOW.” And he was there for that statement and he said “I never said I was against a house and babies. I said that I am just not ready for a baby right now. I want to marry you and make a home first.” And she was so fucking mean and rude oh my GOD.

Later on in the night I’m in the bathroom alone and i am washing makeup off. He comes in and shuts the door and I stop what I’m doing and I beef up and look at him like what’s good homie. I thought he was about to pull some foul shit and my hands were ready to grab a nutsack and pull and he looked at me and he said “I just need to tell someone who loves her and is trustworthy, that I bought some land and have the blueprint of our house. I’m building her a house and I can’t wait to tell her. The ring is next. Please don’t say anything. I couldn’t stay quiet.”

And then he just exits the bathroom and I wanted to punch myself in the face for not loving myself enough to find someone like him. I just get cheated on. I literally couldn’t believe how lucky she was.

So bro. Later the next day I’m still there after everyone left and she’s like “I want a baby. I’m gonna HAVE a baby.” And I was like what you mean? She said “I had my IUD taken out and I’m sleeping with guys and telling them to cum inside of me.”

I let her know how I felt about that and how it was wrong and cruel to her boyfriend and she SERIOUSLY was just like “I don’t care. Maybe he should step up then.” And i was like WE ARE TWENTY TWO! Our eggs ARE NOT DYING! WE HAVE TIME! THIS MAN LOVES YOU SO MUCH AND ALL HE ASKS FOR IS A LITTLE BIT OF TIME TO DO IT ALL RESPECTFULLY AND PROPERLY.”

And then she leaves being picked up by another dude that isn’t him to try and get pregnant. She said she had been cheating for a long ass time and wasn’t gonna stop.

She then calls me one day and is like “he isn’t building me a house anymore he called it off and I fucking hate him.. I can’t fucking stand him!” And I was like BITCH PROLLY BECAUSE ALL HE WANTS TO DO IS LOVE U AND YOUVE BEEN CHEATING.” And she said “oh yeah he knows about it now.”

I said “I wouldn’t build your ass a house either.” And hung up the phone.

She then got pregnant by him finally and aborted the baby out of spite (literally told me herself it was out of spite and he should have gotten her pregnant way earlier at 22 and we were 24 and when she had the termination) and got pregnant again by another man and had that baby. That man she had a kid with is legitimately horrible.

I want her to leave him for her own safety.

And her ex built her house for another woman and is living happily with her.

I just want yall to know that karma is a hard bitch.

Anyways, I just want an outside input on me being very distant with her because I watched all of this go down. I felt very bad for the guy, And I am mad at her for him.

Added: just a small rant.

I am 25 now. I am single. Do you know how hard it is to find a man that will legitimately love you with his entire being like this man did my best friend? NEAR impossible.

They met when we were all 14. He was the only REAL relationship she had. She absolutely took it for granted and is just now learning HOW precious and rare that type of love is. She’s in an abusive relationship off and on and is raising her child all on her own.

I literally cannot believe it. 22? The START of our adult lives, and she had already met a guy that was 100% on her. Loved her to his core, with everything he had. Put up with cheating, and being made out to be less than.

Find me a man that’s gonna build me a house. Find ME a man that says I love you so much that when I give you a home and children, i want to do it in order, I want to be ready. I want to be stable. I will provide all that you want as long as you just give me patience because I want all of it too.

I’ll be there for it all. I’ll be posted up while you and 6 other girls do dumb drunk girl shit together and the whole time I will just continue to look at you like the sun shines out of your butthole with the blue prints to your dream home and a ring are in my back pocket.

She dumb. And the woman he’s wirh right now is so loved on, SO loved on. And you can tell she loves him right back. And I’m like fucking good for you bro. You deserved this.