What do I do?

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I met this 41 year old guy at work (I’m 22 btw) and I ended up giving him the goodies. But now I just feel so terrible and horrible. he’s very disrespectful. Last night, he kept mentioning my roommate and kept saying things like “show me youre the best I’ve ever been with” and I just kept getting turned off. He doesn’t like to kiss (kissing is my favorite). He’s very opinionated on everything. He said that he didn’t understand my logic just because I had one sock on… I was trying to rush and meet him outside to bring him up to my apartment. I just moved into my apartment and I got the directions wrong and he wouldn’t let me hear the end of it. He claimed that he didn’t notice I took my braids out but was yanking all on my real hair. It’s many other things but I can’t remember little details right now. I could be overthinking but I just don’t like the way he makes me feel, I’m too sensitive of a person. How do I let him go? Do I just ghost him and not respond when he hits me up for that ? Or do I just explain to him that I don’t want to see him anymore? (It’s hard for me to explain my feelings without people saying I’m being overly emotional and I’m tired of hearing that.) what do I do?

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If you still have to see him everyday, just be honest and an adult. Tell him you made a mistake in both your judgment of him and by ever engaging with him and you don’t plan on continuing any relationship-sexually or other wise-with him

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I’d ghost this loser personally

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You’re not too sensitive! Don’t let someone make your feelings invalid. If you don’t feel good about yourself after all his put downs, that’s understandable. Just tell him it’s not working out. If you don’t want to explain why, you don’t have to.

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A simple “this isn’t working” will do. You don’t have to see him.

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You’re never overly sensitive for setting boundaries. And honestly I am sure you are never overly sensitive in general, it sounds like something people might have told you and you just picked up that descriptive word. 
You can go to them and say I am not interested in you in a more than friends way, and would like to keep our relationship professional and walk away. 
Also never look at these things as a mistake but more a learning lesson or something that helped you grow.

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Some age gap relationships aren’t meant to work … especially when the man is that disrespectful… but some do.. and in that situation.. just tell him that you don’t think it’s gonna work .. and that it’s time to part ways .. because that’s uncalled for and totally not right.. and he should be more mature than that..

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Honestly that’s kind of typical behavior for a man who’s twice the girls age. Not saying that’s how it always is but it definitely seems to be the case more often than not
I’d say just a simple text like hey this isn’t working out should do. I don’t think you need to see him in person to end it if you aren’t that serious 
I feel like ghosting him if you work together would make things way more awkward. Just be clear you two are done. Will still be awkward working together but at least he wouldn’t be questioning it all

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Just tell him it’s not working out. Ur personalities done match and that you aren’t interested in continuing whatever it is that u have going on. 
He’s an older man who likely appreciates directness. Be honest and very clear.

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Miss girl, he was showing some of these signs before yall did it and you still followed through? 👀 Lol but I would ✨ ghost him ✨ idgaf lmfaoo he’s weird and needs to grow up plus it was a one time thing that will NEVER happen again 🤡 If it was me I’d just act like he doesn’t exist at work . If he does hit you up you could reply and say “I no longer want to continue seeing you” and leave it at that. You don’t have to explain yourself.

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