Feel bad for s.daughter

-alya
Has it happened with anyone else who has a stepchild or stepchildren that it's like family forgets about them with a baby on the way?
I don't think my stepdaughter has really caught it or paid attention to it but some people on one side of my family keeps saying they're so excited for the first great grandchild to arrive.. Technically, my s.daughter is a great grandchild..she's just not "blood" relation.😔 then my aunt on the other side likes to brag about my cousins daughter being the first great granddaughter.
I'm just not sure how to go about it if my s.daughter would get upset..