sex advice

so recent i lost my v card and i’ve only done it once since then.. when i lost it it didn’t last long cause the location was inconvenient and the guy wasn’t as hard as he wanted to be ( his words) but i was super wet so it kept slipping out cause of those reasons, today tho he was harder but i was not wet idk why we were in his room so the location wasn’t a problem but his sister n mom were there so i felt a bit awkward ab that yk n he said i was being loud which i don’t think i was but i hope i wasn’t cause omggg i’d want crawl in a hole n diee anyways any reasons as to why i wasn’t as wet cause i don’t want it to be like that next time??!