Would this turn you off too? & cut him off

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Hi ladies! 
So this one guy & me started texting for 1 day 1/2. Him & I have a history of growing up together in the same neighborhood & he was my ex bestfriend’s brothers friend. He admitted When I was 13 or 14 he used to like me & said I was beautiful but he couldn’t do anything since he was 18 Or 19 & that would be considered rape he said. Which I found weird? He also knew my sister growing up & he said my sister & I was beautiful growing up (my sister is 1 year older than me) . He’s also very clingy he wants me to text him instantly the second he texts me which I hate I’m a Mom of Two & he’s aware. He’s a Dad himself of just 1. I don’t want to text him anymore since he talks sexual when I don’t even be sexual. I didn’t even bring up anything sexual but he does. It’s only been 1 1/2 day since we been texting. I’m grossed out! He already talks about he wants a kid in future & tells me to save it. It’s all just weird! He’s 26 & I’m 22 . I feel as if I’m more mature than him🤦🏻‍♀️would this turn you guys off too?? He’s cute & all but for me it’s a turn off how he’s sexual already .. am I wrong?? He makes comments how my weight looks like a “Yummy weight” & can “pick me up” but I don’t engage in it.

When I said I’m innocent & nice I literally only meant I’m nice! I’m not rude or disrespectful.

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Definitely some red flags going on there 😬 who the heck tells someone he wants your next kid to be with him after a day and a half. Yikes. I'd definitely run from that.. sounds like a nightmare and drama waiting to happen

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What is he? 13?? Talking about you got hoes 😂 I can’t. Definitely red flags! Cut him off, those message made me cringe. 🤢 sounds like he won’t hesitate to TAKE IT if he got a chance.

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It’s super weird that he said that he was attracted to you at like 14 when he was 18. And that he said he couldn’t do anything about it because that would he considered rape. First of all, if you had sex, then yes that would be considered statutory rape, but why does he automatically jump to that?? Like is he saying he could have gotten you to have sex with him or something? He could have hit on you or flirted with you with no legal repercussions but it would have just been weird and creepy still. I would stop talking to him because he sound weird and creepy.

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Definitely not my cup of tea I mean even the thought of after 1day chat you can do sexting is weird

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I think the turn off for me would be the fact that he was 18 attracted to a 13/14 yr old. I’m sorry but that’s not normal. I’d say .. there’s billions of ppl out there .. let a better one find you!

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I think it’s funny that a single Mom of two is having so many problems dealing with sexual overtures from a man like she’s a blushing virgin or something. He’s being sexual like this because that’s what he’s interested in. He sees a woman with two kids (no man) and feels like you’ll be open to sex with him. When he brings it up, I don’t see you checking him. You’re not telling him to knock it it off in any of the texts you posted so why post as if the guy is so terrible for speaking to you this way?  If you don’t like it, you should tell him. Don’t just assume he knows how you feel.

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RED FLAGS 
1 he called your children Hoes
2 he wants all of your attention 
3 if he checked you out at a young age what will he do to Your Children? 
4 He doesn't seem to take a hint of you Not engaging in the sexual banter. 
YOU NEED TO BE VERY BLUNT AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. He Does Not  get it.

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He’s a pedophile and you have children….

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Yeah I want to be with anybody who calls my kid hoes. Whatever happened to speaking proper English 🙄

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What a loser I wouldn’t waste another second talking to this goof block and move on focus on your kids and the right man will eventually come along maybe but not this guy

Would this turn you off too? & cut him off

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