Thank you to the other women that understand and get me.

Also, i love opposite sex friends and theyre great to have. But NOT after you were intimate with them for months and had sex all the time. Thats a big fat no for me. Maybe some of yal are okay with your husbands taking out a girl he used to fuck to the movies, but im not.

I wrote there that he LIED about hanging out and seeing her. I asked him to be honest and he lied to my face multiple times about them hanging out. If your boyfriend lied to you about hanging out with a girl he used to sleep with, wouldn’t that be shady??? Also i didnt DEMAND him to stop talking to her. I didnt ask him to. I actually told him dont feel obligated to. We talked deeply and clearly about this. Anything with her brought up, he has lied about. So of course i couldn’t agree to a relationship with her in it. I told him if he wants to still be friends and he feels like hes missing out on her friendship, then thats completely fine. But that i will leave and have nothing to do with him anymore. I also asked if there would be a chance of him resenting me and he said no because its not much of a loss for him. I would never demand anyone to stop being friends, he did it because he knows he was wrong for lying to me. He also knows its wrong to be friends with someone you hooked up with a few months before getting into a relationship with me.

For example. Just 2 days ago, he went to the movies with her and lied to me when i asked him what he did that day. Even tho i was at his house that same morning and he invited me over right when he got back from the movies with her. He also deleted their texts messages. Im sorry but im not jealous or insecure. Im smart and ill be damned if i get into a relationship acting stupid or if hes not 100% sure about me.