So I really feel like my postpartum has started early I’m 21 weeks. First my bfs mother offered to do our gender reveal. I wanted my mom to do it, but she offered and didn’t want to be mean so I said yes. Months go by her and I have yet to talk about it. She tells us she won’t be coming to the baby shower because she has other things to do. But begins to throw another party around the same time. And wants him to help with it. Then my boyfriend and her gets into argument. She tells him she didn’t plan the reveal because she has other things to do, that’s lil stuff to her. Then tells him F**** our child she doesn’t give a F**** about her. And she’s happy her ex husband abused him. I don’t trust her and won’t especially around my child. I guess they’re back cool 3 weeks later. And said he’s inviting her to the baby shower. I’m over this pregnancy I don’t want a baby shower anymore. I’m not comfortable, haven’t been and the whole pregnancy has been disappointing. Am I wrong for not wanting to deal with her end keeping my baby from her.