Physical Disconnection

So me and my boyfriend have agreed not to have sex before we get married. So lately all we’ve done is foreplay. Fingering and blowjobs and such. He bought me a vibrator to use at home and I’ve used it twice and now when he finders me I can’t cum. Even by myself I can’t make myself cum unless I use my toy. So now it’s become a problem with us bcuz he’s frustrated that he can’t get me off. So at this point I feel I need to stop using my toy all together so he and I can better enjoy our intimacy.

What do y’all think?