So I’ve written something on here similar a few months ago & got some insight and help, but my anxiety is always eating away at me especially since my due date is getting closer. So I apologize if someone is seeing the same post twice.

My issue is that my current boyfriend and I broke up in July of 21 after being together for a year. I was on the pill when I was with him, but we never used a condom or pull out. Never had a scare. Well, when we broke up, I just neglected my birth control, and stopped taking it all together, I guess I figured I would just stay single for a while and focus on me and not even mess with other men; plus I didn’t like the pill anyways bc of the negative side effects it gave me. Unfortunately, on September 27, I had a one night stand with a stranger, but we used a condom and the pull out method. Then, on the 28th, my ex and I had sex for the first time since we had broken up, and we did not use a condom or the pull out method. I was very irresponsible by having sex back to back with more than one person, I know, and not being careful when it came to my ex; but it was so in the moment and I had missed him very much and I wasn’t in my right mind.

Found out I was pregnant in October, and the doctor told me that my due date was June 21, making my most possible conception date the 28th of September, which is the day my ex and I had sex. But I’m just worried about my chances that it could be the one night stands baby. We didn’t test to make sure there wasn’t a hole or anything. But he is so confident that he pulled out in time, that there were no holes, etc. I know my chances of it being my ex’s is so much more, but I truly truly want it to be because now we are doing so well and planning a future together again. Having me have another man’s baby would ruin all chances of that and throw my life for a complete loop. So, my question being, does anyone know how likely it could be the one night stands? Since it was only a day off from my conception date? How likely is it to even actually conceive the day of having sex? Should I even be worried about it being the other man’s?

Please no judgment. I’m just an anxious mama who wants other experiences and opinions.