MONTH OLD SLEEP

so did anyone else have this problem that has any tips.. el WILL NOT nap during the day unless she is rocked and patted and it’s terrible trying to get her to nap without being held. takes a good 30 minutes to get her down. ive been watching her wake times and sleep cues to not miss when she’s tired but she still never falls asleep without vigorous help. and then when we miss a nap, i have a grumpy screaming child. but when she gets all her naps in she is such a happy baby and only gets up to eat 3 times at night and sleeps all night through.. days ago she was staying up 3-4 hours straight because i didn’t know any better to put her down and she was continuously overstimulated and we thought something was wrong but we just had an extremely overtired baby. but for me to take her anywhere or people to visit to needs silence to get to sleep and then you can be loud after she’s out and she’s fine. but even for someone to sit and hold her she won’t sleep. she will stay awake the entire time and idk what to do 😩