We are both grown in families with catholic rites and principles. When we met we were quite opposite, he presented himself as an atheist while I had strong belief. But now we feel pretty the same and none of us attend any religious—even far-related activities. My in-laws insisted to get us married by religious rite, then got quite upset and disappointed when we chose a plain civil rite (note: we attended altogether some religious ceremonies of our relatives and family friends and my father-in-law didn’t ever entry in the church. Not a single time.) My parents left us up to decide instead. Now my in-laws insist (again) we must baptize our children. My husband is somewhat parting with his parents and says we should, even if we aren’t religious, because of traditions and respect for his parents. I obviously disagree as it’s completely meaningless for our view of living. What do you think?