So it’s complicated but I didn’t date for 3 years and I decided since the pandemic is winding down I should get back out there again. I had a couple bad relationships and dating experiences so I decided to take a dating hiatus.

So I met this guy on the app, I mean at first it seemed great, we talk a lot and get along. I planned to meet him and we picked one place on Saturday. Which was kind of an odd place, but I said okay anyways. Today I woke up and suggested something easier to get to. He said he was fine with it. But then the day goes on and he starts telling me how he felt kind of hurt that I switched the place up to a busier place like the mall but didn’t wanna go to the park with him like previously described. And the he started almost getting mad that I was giving vibes that I was being too cautious and that I should trust and respect him that he’s not gonna do anything bad and that I shouldn’t generalize about all men. Idk where this came from, it literally came out of left field. (Btw I asked for this guys number the day before and he said he doesn’t give it out because too many people have ghosted him, so who’s the skeptical person here)

I wanted something casual, I wasn’t expecting to be texting all day but that’s what he’s doing. I wanted to meet somewhere semi neutral and not go to some weird park with him.

Anyways he calmed down really fast and we’re still on for Saturday for the mall. But then just literally 20 mins ago, I told him I couldn’t sleep because I’m too excited about Saturday. He said he can help me fall asleep? And then I said it’s ok I can take melatonin and he was like 🙄 ok fine let me go back to my book.

I don’t know what this guys issue is. I’m asking for something casual and it’s like he’s wanting something more and we haven’t met. We literally met two days ago on an app, he’s already wanting trust and respect and I don’t think I should give that all to him just yet until I’ve known him for awhile.

So I’m planning to go to this date and see what it’s like. If he acts weird during the date I’m leaving and if the date goes ok but he acts weird after by complaining again I will def ghost him. But tell me if I’m the one acting weird?