Will I regret it?

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I'm a mom of 2, married for 7 years now 
My youngest is 18 months and i am 8 weeks pregnant
My husband wants me to get an abortion. We are barely handling 2 kids, parenthood is so hard as is. When our second was born i had the hardest time adjusting, i had no support system and my husband got back to work 3 days later,  it was so bad
We agreed that we won't be having anymore kids as we are really struggling mentally and physically with having 2 kids under 4 years old
And i am at the peak of my career, this will destroy it.
But,, the more i think about it, the more i lean towards continuing the pregnancy
We are financially well, i can hire someone to help me when i give birth, but i don't know.
Will i regret continuing the pregnancy? Or will i regret aborting
It pains me that i can't have this baby because i can't handle another child. But i fear that i will regret aborting
Im so lost
We go for our appointment tomorrow

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I just had an abortion and don’t regret it at all. I couldn’t support another baby with my 3 now.

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I don't know if u will regret it or not it can pe possible to regret but on the other hand of u will not be able to take care of 3 children and couldn't support them than you will definitely regret it more than now in my opinion

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If you say you’re leaning toward continuing the pregnancy and questioning whether you’ll regret it or not, there’s a high chance you will. Learning about where the baby is in his/her development can help you make a more informed decision (the heart beat begins at about 4 weeks 4 days- 18 days after conception). I always tell people- think about your life in 10 or 20 years. When you look back at this situation what do you hope your choices were? And make sure you fully understand your baby’s development and the abortion process itself, so you don’t learn things years later that cause you guilt and regret. I wish you the best

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No one can tell you if you will regret it or not. Some people definitely do while others do not. I'm someone who did not regret it. As you know it takes more than just money to raise children. They need happy and healthy parents. Do you think your situation would improve with more help? Individual and couples therapy? Possible medication if needed or any anxiety or depression? If the answer is possibly yes than maybe it would be worth to try and continue the pregnant. If the answer is no or you are not open to those ideas then maybe you shouldn't. No one can tell you what to do. This is something you can discuss tomorrow at your appointment with a professional who can give you unbiased advice.

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I had an abortion a few weeks ago at 7 weeks. I have an 8 year old and a 6 month old. My husband and I were using condoms but obviously they didn’t work for us. I went back and forth for about a week before I finally made the appointment. My heart was telling me to keep the baby but my mind was telling me that it wouldn’t be the best for me or my kids. There are some days I feel sad and I’ve been feeling a lot of guilt but I don’t regret it. 
To me it sounds like you want to have this baby. You need to think long and hard about what you want to do. Unfortunately no one can make this decision for you not even your husband. Just know that if you decide to have the baby he may be resentful. I’d talk to a counselor to help you get your thoughts together if you’re able to. I wish you the best in whatever you decide 💗

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We can’t tell you if you’ll regret it or not.

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