Are you actually close your siblings?

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I have two older siblings and i don't talk to them. There's no bad history between us. I don't really like my sister as she talkes down on me with such attitude. I do live with her and pay the majority of the bills. We never clicked imo. There's no real conversations happening. And with my brother moved away to a different state. I love him as i feel safe with him. And i know if i have a problem he could help me. I talk to him probably 5 times a year and im being generous. When we do talk he askes me questions really keeps the conversation going. I just want to know if there is other people like me.
No real bond with their siblings. I feel like if i were to move away I dont think i would really talk to my sister either. I don't feel bad about it. Sometimes I think aw that sucks i dont have that tight bond especially with my sister then I talk to her and im like yeah this conversation is pointless. I assume my sister and brother talk to each other a lot but not sure. 
Fyi I'm 25 my brother is 31 and my sister 35 I think

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My oldest brother who lives in my house, hell no he’s an asshole, he’s a narcissist, he’s bipolar, schizophrenic, the list goes on and on and when he tried to kill me years ago I kind of stopped liking him, we basically tolerate him so he doesn’t kill us. We all live on separate floors and no one really talks to the other unless they have to. My middle brother, him and I are close but he doesn’t live in the state and he has my niece it so We’ve never had an issue, we get along fine, being the younger siblings, we were always close. My oldest brother was an asshole from the minute he was born.

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I have a ton of siblings and I love them all but we are not close. I have 2 brothers a year younger(twins) one has an addiction problem and I probably have talked to him the most until I have backed off lately, his
twin is kind of mean and does really well for himself and only ever talked about money I’m closer to his wife. I have 2 younger siblings in their early 20’s I hardly talk to because they grew up in my fathers house I love them but the bonds not there sadly. And 2 younger siblings 13&15 at my moms who I see the most and try to stay involved because I know when they are older it will probably be similar to my other siblings.

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I have two sisters. One of them I’m close with one of them we barley talk

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I (26) grew up with 2 of my siblings, an older brother 28 & a younger sister 24 & then met my step sister (27) & younger brother (24) during my teenage years. I am the closest with the two I grew up with even though we all live in different states. I talk to my younger sister the most like 4 times a day however we fought daily if not hourly when we lived together lol I talk to my older brother a couple times a month, I talk to my step sister (even though my bio father is not married to her mother anymore & hasn’t been for like 8 years I still call her my sister since I met her & my brother at the same time) maybe once every 2 or so months, I used to talk to my younger brother & good bit but unfortunately drugs have taken him on a bad path & I haven’t talked to him in about a year. I love all of my siblings & we try to get together at least once a year

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i'm the youngest (22) and have two sisters (31 & 29) and im very close with my oldest sister. we talk almost daily and actually planned our pregnancies (she's 5 weeks ahead of me)! me and my middle sister aren't close though, we shared a room growing up and she hated that i always was around her and after she moved out she would try to get me introuble and just never tried to be close to me. we've gotten closer over the last few months but there's still not a lot of communication unless we're both at my parents house. i think the reason why me and my oldest sister are so close is because there's a 9 year age gap and i was like her baby growing up lol and she just never really got out of that mindset. i mean she treats me like an adult now but she still has almost a motherly love for me in a sense since she watched me all the time when my parents were at work

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The only reason we’re not close anymore is because we live in different countries.

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My oldest brother I had a tight bond with. I always looked up to him, we had a 12 years age difference so that might be why we are close. We have never fought like siblings. I always looked up to him as a mentor in a way. He unfortunately passed away a year ago from pancreatic cancer at 35 year old 
My other brother on the other hand, we are only 5 years apart and we aren’t that close. We were close during our childhood until he became a teen. He was  barely at home. Whatever bond we had was destroyed when he started doing drugs while I was a teen. He actually gave me severe anxiety because I would come back home to find all of my stuff was stolen by him so he could get his fix. I started to want to cut class so I could guard my stuff lol
I never really thought he could get clean. He was a meth addict but did any drugs he could get his hands on. He was like that for 7 years until our oldest brother became sick from cancer than he sobered up and got his life together so he could spend time with our brother. He did good, he gained all of his weight back and kept a job.
But now he has relapsed and back on meth. He threw away three years of sobriety for a fix. He’s lost his job and now he’s about to lose his apartment. Our relationship never fully went back to being close during his years of being sober, some relationships you can’t completely fix. I am not sure why he relapsed but it could be a late reaction from our brother dieing. He never fully grieved over him. Addicts, they lose their coping skills when they get on drugs so any bad emotions they can’t cope with it, they have to relearn that skill so I am assuming that is what happened. 
I’ve already booked a bed at a rehab center for him but he tried to say that he’s sober today but he posted regular rocks on Snapchat and said it was gold, a classic sign of meth. For some reason a lot of meth addicts thinks normal rocks are gold or diamonds I am unsure why.
But if he doesn’t go on Monday I will be Casey Lawing him, I’ve already got the papers. I refuse to let him walk down this path again without trying at least once. But if it doesn’t work, I will be washing my hands of him forever.
So, some people are close with their siblings and some aren’t. It just depends on you

Are you actually close your siblings?

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