Would you choose your baby’s gender?

So while doing IvF you can opt for a PGT-A test that pretty much shows which egg will most likely develop abnormally and lower my risk of miscarriage, but it can also tell if the egg will develop into a male or female. My wife wants to choose (we already have a son and her dream is to have a little girl), but I’m struggling with if it’s a right thing morally to do, like she admits she’ll love our baby no matter what and I’m the same but while the offer is tempting I feel like it’s a bit invasive. I’d want to take the test to see which eggs are worth the effort and show the best chances but idk morally how I feel about the second part.