Relationship venting

I’m sure I will be told I’m overreacting but I’m so annoyed! Anytime my bf is with me and we’re eating dinner or doing something together, even while he’s driving. He will respond to someone’s text asap. Even if it’s something stupid he has to hurry up and get back to them before they kick the bucket. However when he’s with the people he’s texting and I text him, ask him something he doesn’t say shit. It’s like it’s ok to disrespect me but not the dudes he’s with or texting. I’m literally tired of it. I’ve told him many times it’s not ok yet he feels the need to do it. Also anyone else here spouse job refuse to give them time off for the birth of their child? Like he can’t even call off or he will get fired. Thing is, he’s never called off or done anything to get fired but his fear of being fired is so high it’s disgusting. Don’t get me wrong I’m thankful he’s able to keep a job and do all that but he’s missing out on a lot of things that time will not give back. I’m just getting tired of dealing with the same thing. I have a lot of shit bottled up that could start a fire but you know, is it really worth it? He expects me to clean up his dirty clothes, trash laying around and do his dishes. I actually like doing dishes but I’m super preggo and don’t feel like bending over to get the shit on the floor. I don’t feel like vacuuming yet he doesn’t do it. And it’s not just a few rooms to vacuum and mop it’s all the floors that are dirty. He thinks a guys work is going to work and providing for his family, however I’m not his maid to clean up and pick shit up. That’s not my job. I have a dog and I’m trying to get last minute things ready for my son. Granted idk if he’s even allowed to take off work. And I have a feeling if he says he can’t I’m going to be angry. His boss hates me because I want him to be some dad and husband material yet his boss brainwashed him into thinking he doesn’t need to ask my opinion about things, the guy has been a total downer to my relationship. My bf only talks about the dumb shit I say or whatever, it’s never about what he did! I’m just over it and I feel like I deserve better and if I’m going to do this alone then I really want to be single, ya know??