So my friends and family are so happy about my pregnancy. Its fun to see all the encouraging words. I goes to church today and tell my pastor and she already knew because someone else to her before me. With an attitude she asked why didn't I tell her. I told her I was going to. She asked when (looking at me meanly) and I explained to her when I felt I was ready. She asked why (with a mean face) and I told her because I don't need no stress. Now she really ruffled my feathers. Then she asked is my bf and I going to get married. I told her yes but we're not rushing it just because someone feel like we should because of the baby. We have everything planned. Then she tells me not to tell anybody else im pregnant. Her reaction was like, because I'm pregnant before marriage I'm doomed or something. It really hurt my feelings. Made me not want to go to church anymore. Especially if every time I come around I'm being treated like that. That's why I didn't tell her yet. Because I didn't want to feel upset. Everyone makes decisions about their lives based on how they want their life to go. And we have so many judgemental people making people feel bad because their decision isn't how they would live their lives. All I want is support. I lost my first baby in 2007. I finally got pregnant again and im doomed because I'm not married yet. Really?? Just felt like venting.