Does she sound predatory?

So I went to a counselor and told her I was a lesbian and she supported me. I told her I feel like I’ll never get a gf and that the furthest thing I’ve done is sext a girl. I told her I was obsessed with the female body and would read for hours how to pleasure a girl and watch videos on how to pleasure a woman. She asked how do you pleasure a girl? Then I said so you want me to tell you how to pleasure a girl? Then she changed the subject. I said most women I’ve sexted told me they weren’t satisfied because they told me their bf/husband only cares about his orgasm. I said I mean the vagina doesn’t have as much nerve endings as the clit so that’s where they should be focusing on. She made a sex symbol with her hand 👉🏻👌🏻 and stuck the finger in her knuckle and said you mean they should do this instead of that (she took her finger out and made a rubbing motion with her finger on the opening and on top of the opening👌🏻). I said well yes mainly. But then I went red because I think she just showed me how she rubs herself. But then I also realized the whole sexual hand gestures weren’t necessary. Thoughts? Am I overreacting? And I live in a place where sex education is almost nonexistent if that matters at all.