Is my husband lazy?

My husband is into gaming WAY too much and he wasn’t like this before marriage this bad. He had a gaming group he text in everyday with friends aboht xbox and gaming. He watches YouTube videos to work and while at work through ear buds about gaming. Today when He got home my niece came over to play with our boy and he put our baby down to nap. He hops right on Xbox and plays with buddies talking to them. Meanwhile there’s the kitchen to clean up and everything. Here and there he’ll help clean up but like I have to text him while I’m working. He HAS to play Xbox everyday or watch videos. I’m so sick of it honestly. It’s annoying. Then he took a shower tonight and left the curtain open, toilet seat up, and clothes all over. He does not pick up after himself and it’s fucking annoying.