Regarding seggs advice

So, I’ve left an abusive relationship three years ago, I haven’t had sex since Because I was just disgusted in everyone.. now all sudden I’m just flirting with every guy I talk to and getting turned on by guys who flirt back easily, lol is it wrong of me to leave my kids with my sisters just to go hang out with a guy friend? Or what? I’ve never dated anyone besides my baby dad for 7 years, how do I do this? 😂😂