Someone who won't take accountability for their actions or things they say.

Everyone usually sides with this person but they don't see or hear about what's said/done behind closed doors. This person tells everyones business but also plays nice when others are looking. Oversteps boundaries. Takes over conversations and make it about themselves. And attempts to embarrass their grown daughters in front of others (such as giving their child dirty looks and then asking embarrassing question when people are around...such as "hey XYZ, did you ever go to the doctor for that problem you had? Or, why are you walking like that?) It gives off bullying vibes.

Lastly, everyone who has seen both sides to this person has attempted to have one-on-one conversations only to have an attitude flown around. This person begins yelling. And, ignoring who ever "confronted" them for weeks.

Myself included. I should add that this is a close family member.

Thanks.