Tonsillitis or strep? or something else

Before y’all come for me saying go to the doctors, I have terrible health insurance and can’t get on government help because my husband “makes too much” Yet we are paying about 1,000 a month just in medical bills plus our health insurance. We are looking into getting financial help with the hospital but will be waiting to get approved because we have a new dependent. We have been coming down with just about everything lately and really don’t want to make another trip to urgent care but will if need be. My throat started hurting a couple days ago but today it’s gotten a lot worse. Hurts like hell to swallow. My lymph nodes hurt and the back of my neck hurts. Have a headache as well. Decided to finally look in my throat today and I see all this white stuff and I just don’t know if it’s strep or tonsillitis. I also spit out some phlegm that was pretty much all blood. If anyone can help with home remedies that’s very appreciated thank you.