41+1 overdue

Brandy
Ok so SIL called my bf and scared us by telling us Im too overdue and there is risk of the baby pooing inside and getting an infection my induction date is set up for 12/22 but she says that too late. That I should be induced before. Now I'm worried and I don't know what to do. Has anyone gone past what will be my 41+3? And is there a risk of my baby pooing inside right now?