Just curious if I'm weird hahah

Brittany • Mommy to a wonderful 12yr old boy, 9yr old boy 7yr old girl 6yr old girl and 3yr old girl. Due March 11th 2023 with a boy.
Do you guys allow your SO to finger you or eat you out while TTC? I'm so afraid to get a bacterial infection from his dirty hands or mouth that I refuse to let him. I just feel like allowing him to possibly cause me to get an infection will lower my chances of getting pregnant. It's logical right?