Abortion

Hi, I’m writing here to vent, my partner sees abortion as the only answer to our unexpected pregnancy. He says he’s career is not were he’d expect it to be before planning on having a family and also says we aren’t at the best place. Because we live far from family. But I know we could, we’ve got a house, and we move enough income to make it work. And I know that we can make it work. But he doesn’t want to see anything else than going back to our normal life before is “too late”. I said I need time to reflect as I’m unsure of what I want. To be honest, I want to keep the baby, but I’m afraid that by doing so our relationship might suffer and that he will resent me for not considering his career and his dreams. How could I get him to see the positive side of things if we were to keep the baby? He’s so closed about any other possibilities that it’s making it so hard for me. I always imagined this moment as a happy and incredible moment in my life, in our life, and now it just feels as if I’m going through the saddest moment instead. I want to cuddle up in bed and cry. But I also want to be strong and show him that things can be very good. Cause I don’t want to let go, the thought of loosing this baby just breaks my heart.