Having another abortion ? Didn’t want the first confused ?

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I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant and 2 weeks later I had an abortion- I really didn’t have time to process it and my mom made my decision for me but then I think if I REALLY wanted it I would fought harder but I didn’t even FEEL pregnant like I was in disbelief 
But one day I started bleeding and thought there some something wrong with me and went to the hospital to see if it was okay. So I must’ve cared rt ? 
The aftermath was something I would never do again that’s why I try to be more careful and me being 20 I feel like it would be selfish to have another one because I’m an adult, time to be responsible for my actions .. this is just a rant honestly

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If you feel you are not ready to have a child at this point, then get the abortion. if you want the child, then proceed with your pregnancy. You should do what is best for you, don’t worry about how others may feel or what it may look like to others.

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I know a few that have gotten them and they all regret it. I would say if you are even on the fence about it don’t do it.

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Having an abortion is one way of taking responsibility. Raising an entire human being and being a parent forever is another. Giving it up for Adoption is another. 
I'm sorry you find yourself in the position to make such a difficult decision, and I hope you can make the right one for yourself/potential new person. 
Personally, I think it's very difficult for people to have children when there's very little social safety net. If people expect people to raise children after an unplanned pregnancy, we should probably make it a more pleasant world to do that in. I think potential parents are very right to look at their resources and environment and say, they can do it or it's not a good idea. I think any animal would have to think that way, it seems natural. 
It's really unfortunate that abortion has become such a political topic, when it used to be seen as more of a unfortunate necessity. 
You have every right to make whatever decision you need to.

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Your previous abortion shouldn't weigh on your current decision. There is no prize or contingency for how many or few. I personally have never had one BUT I have supported several friend through theirs. Please just be understanding that you have to make a decision that's best for you & a future baby if that's what your considering. It's not easy being a parent, it's not easy to have an abortion, it's not easy to give a baby up for adoption.. but you'll have to choose which you can live with & move forward. Good luck! I hope all works out well for you!

Having another abortion ? Didn’t want the first confused ?

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