The family alarme

Sammy-joe
Like every women , one day, realy( if its not a need ) to have a baby . And now it's my family alarm ringging, i want a baby, starting my own family . In fact my boyfriend's saying that it's to early cuz we're 20 and he need to live is life " young and wild life " !! So do you have a advice not to force him but to make him think about having a family???
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