My mom said my husband us codependent
To explain everything I gotta get into some back story. My husband had a girl who was his best friend who we will call Kerri. Him and Kerri had been best friends since they were 7. In my opinion she wasn't always a good friend. She was constantly shitty towards him. She also didn't like me. I felt like my husband stayed friends with her because he didn't have many friends. My husband has autism and it makes him hard to make friends. My husband came home 2 years ago after going to a club with her. I 100% trust him. We had been married 3 years then... He told me he slept with her. He said he didn't remember it but he woke up in her bed and he was naked. She came in and talked about how good sex was. I was hurt and cried. My husband cried.... I through my ring and told him I wasn't gonna be with him anymore. But he begged and pleaded... So I agreed to go to marriage counseling with him. 6 months later I'm still learning to trust him and he is trying to earn my trust back. Kerri's little sister sends us screenshots of Kerri telling her that age drugged him so she could fuck him and get pregnant and that she DID get pregnant but when she found out I wasn't leaving him she aborted the baby. I was so fucking pissed! My husband was more hurt because for months he thought he cheated on me. It destroyed his trust in people. He doesn't go many places without me or his brother and he REFUSES to go to parties and clubs without me. My mom thinks he's codependent and realistically no women is gonna hold him down a rape him so she thinks he's overreacting and too paranoid. My husband's thing is he was friends with this girl for years and she drugged him raped him and let him believe he cheated which hurt him. His trust in people are gone. He sees a therapist. I don't think he's codependent. I think he feels if his best friend can hurt him than who else can? I
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