My husband has a bad habit of comparing me to other women in arguments. Ive told him countless times that it’s disrespectful and it hurts my feelings but he doesnt seem to get it. Anyway we had a nasty argument a few months back where he ended up sending me various photos of a certain person that ive worked with in the past. Photos where of her and her husband and their friends at an outting, photo of their house and another photo of the person in lingerie. All this saying why cant we be like them, why dont i dress in nice lingerie like her, and that he wishes i was like this person. Mind you my husband never met these people. He copied their photos from instagram. I went off on him and told him to marry her instead. He later apologized. Fast forward now, my husband and i are visiting my home country. Myself and that person come from the same country but both reside in the U.S. He still follows this girl on instagram even though i stopped following her a long time ago. Today he tells me she is in the country as well and same city and that he asked her and her husband if they wanted to come to dinner with us. Again i went off . Why the fuck do you think i would want to have dinner with someone you compare me to. He then proceeded to call me jealous, crazy and evil and just doesn’t understand why i feel the way i feel.