Question please don’t judge

Is it weird my mom is setting up a nursery at her house for my baby? Like full on crib basically everything you would need for a baby? But the baby will be with me most of the time. I’m not trying to be ungrateful I’m just wondering do you think it’s weird or not? Also another question while I’m here. My mom told me not to give her my son when it’s convenient for me but when she wants him also. Don’t judge me this is my first kid and I’ve had to basically buy 2 of everything….

I know she’s excited for the new role but I’m not even sure how often we will be seeing them….

And I mean please don’t judge me for asking or accusing me of being ungrateful or whatever that’s not what’s going on.

I mean she will get time with him but to the extent of him having his own room there, it’s a bit much for me. I live 45 mins away from her house and basically I have my own little family going on. I’m not sure if she’s being delusional thinking it’s her kid but I’ll be honest I’ve had nightmares of people taking my kid like kidnapping my baby and it just makes me feel uncomfortable. Some of my family members have even noticed her over stepping but idk if I should say something to her. She just feels entitled to touching my belly whenever she wants. Like I don’t really like people touching my belly, my mom or not. Then I tell her to stop she tells me to be nice and I said stop, be nice I said this is my body and she says she’s the grandma which no shit I know that but I choose when I want to be touched. Like fml man. She’s pushing me away.