Orgasm?

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So, when I masterbate I finish but I don’t necessarily feel this grand explosive rushing feeling I just get kind of hot and a little breathless.
This may sound silly but can someone tell me if there are different levels to an orgasm? Or confirm if orgasm are even that great? I have no idea what I’m supposed to expect and I can’t help but feel like maybe I’m doing it wrong… or maybe an orgasm just isn’t as good as I expected 🤷‍♀️

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It sounds like you're getting close to an orgasm but not quite orgasming. Have you pushed past that hot/breathless feeling?

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Try edging.
Edging is a technique that can be used to prolong an orgasm, or make an orgasm more intense. It can be used alone or with a partner. It is a form of orgasm denial where you reach a high level of sexual stimulation, but do not allow yourself to orgasm (or “go over the edge”). Edging is also known as surfing or peaking. It is a form of orgasm denial.

Stimulate yourself until you get close to your orgasm, then stop for 30 seconds or longer. Open your eyes, breathe, maybe move the stimulation somewhere else for that period of time, your thighs, your behind, your breasts or nipples. The start again.

Repeat this a few times until you just can’t hold it any more or you feel ready, then allow yourself to orgasm. Edging will often lead to an extended, powerful full body orgasm.

There are a number of ways to edge:

Back to Zero: (ideal for when you are quick to orgasm)
•	Stimulate yourself to the point just before climax. 
•	Take a break for a few minutes or even hours. Do some nipple or breast play, or get on with your day/night before picking up again
•	Start again with warming up and going to almost orgasm.
•	Repeat this process a few times before allowing yourself to go over the edge
Distracting your orgasm: (ideal for when you are quick to orgasm)
•	Stimulate yourself to the point just before climax
•	Do something sudden and distracting, like squeezing, tapping, pinching or spanking somewhere else.
•	As soon as the feeling of increasing tension subsides, get back to business
•	Repeat this process a few times until you can’t take it any more and surrender to your orgasm
Continuous Stimulation: (ideal when you tend to lose your orgasm)
•	Stimulate yourself to the point just before climax
•	Move the stimulation away from your clitoris to some other sensitive spot (lips, vaginal opening, anus)
•	Start the clit stimulation when the feeling of impending orgasm subsides
•	Repeat a few times until you just can’t handle it and then let yourself orgasm 

Some women find that riding the edge for too long can decrease their ability to have powerful orgasms, and numbs them. So you may have to experiment a few times to find your optimum point.

When you finally orgasm, just surrender to the feeling. Let your body flow where it wants to. Clear your mind from distractions and concentrate on that warm coal burning inside you and that sparkle in your clitoris threatening to light up your body. Ride the waves of heat, contractions and pleasure rippling through your body.

When you are done, take a few moments to appreciate just how great that was, and how wonderful it is to be a woman and have orgasm that rocks your world.

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For me, it’s this feeling of euphoria. My body literally feels like it’s flying and I just have this complete sense of release. My skin gets goosebumps and I instantly feel even more wet. It’s honestly, the best feeling in the world. 
However, I’ve only gotten it through penetration. 
The feeling your explaining is usually how I feel when I’m receiving oral, but I always push my husband away just before the peak because I feel like I’m going to pee. I have to get over that feeling because it would be great to orgasm from oral.

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Sounds like you just need to fantasize more n tease yourself. Don't rush n you ll get there!

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You’re not orgasming then. An orgasm is a build up and release that feels extremely good. It’s not being a little out of breath.

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