My soon to be child’s father has absolutely no balls whatsoever. He’s being a complete deadbeat asshole. I thought things were going good between us but he likes to use power and control against me. My baby is due in 20 days. Him and I ain’t married. I have had a bunch of things donated to me, from charities, churches, other moms, you name it. I’ve had 2 baby showers and since I thought everything was going good between us, I decided to bring all my baby stuff over. He gets mad at me for the pettiest things. Tells me I can’t go in the house because the doors will be locked. He says all HIS sons things are staying behind. I’m carrying this child. I have accumulated most of everything for my son. He is trying to keep it all from me and make me look like an unfit mother. He’s literally stealing from my son to try to make my life worse. None of this pregnancy has been fun at all. No I didn’t just get pregnant by him on purpose. Yeah we had sex, however im old and was always told I couldn’t have kids so I was under the impression I’m infertile. Turns out, I’m not! Either way, Idky this type of person is trying to steal stuff from his own son! He makes me feel trapped and obviously I have record of everything places have given me because they do in fact keep track of the stuff. I literally feel like I’m continuing to go thru a traumatic situation because of this stupid ass honeymoon phase. He does some fucked up shit then like redeems himself and tries to look like this great guy. Or he will start talking to another girl and make me jealous. Like dude I’m just over the shit. I wish he could be a grown ass adult and let me go, let me have my sons stuff and help me move tf out. It’s not that hard. Idk if he’s keeping me around to be on the birth certificate to just up and take my son from my life or what his plan is. Either way, I was under the impression he loved me for me and wanted to be with me but these selfish acts he continues to pull is very unhealthy for me. For gods sake my due date is at the end of the month.