Tired of the hospital

I’m 31 weeks pregnant

I’ve gone to the hospital weekly or biweekly since 26 weeks due to preterm labor. I’ve dilated a bit then closed up on progesterone then my blood pressure was so low due to procardia and babygirl wasn’t moving. She was fine though just had to stop meds. Now I have gestational diabetes and Cholestasis and last night I went again bd I had contractions for 3 hours 2-6 minutes apart. They were causing discomfort only no pain and they sent me home without checking my cervix. Just told me to keep being on bed rest. I don’t know what to expect currently they just told me to come back when I can’t talk or breathe thru my contractions. It seems sort of extreme for me but I guess.

Have any women had something similar happen and did they end up giving birth early?

I’ve asked for the steroid shots for baby’s lungs but they blow it off?