Wait to have babies or get them out while you’re young?

I wanna hear your guys different takes on this subject!

My mom had me at 17. She obviously said it wasn’t ideal but she actually is so happy to be 37 with all her kids graduated and out of the house. She feels like she now has the rest of her life to do her own thing. And she’s happy about it cause she is financially in a better place than she has even been and can afford to travel and do things with just her husband. They’re still in good health too so that’s not an issue.

My brother in the other hand, has three children and he is 23 years old lol he says he honestly wishes he waited to have kids. He is worn out, he has to stay working long and hard hours because he must provide for his children and wife, and it’s just a lot for him. He said he feels like he’s missing out on life cause his wife wants him home as soon as he’s off work to relieve her of the 3 babies. He says he’s lucky to get one weekend a month to have someone be willing to watch them so he can go out with his wife alone, and the whole time they feel like they have to check in with the babysitter and have some sort of “parent guilt” leaving their kids.

What are your guys experience? What would you recommend?