Maybe we're not mentioning for each other..

So tonight's fight was that the partner asked me to start sending videos specifically through snapchat of our son(2y) (truckdriver)quote "so I don't just see him an hour before he goes to bed" and I said wouldn't you rather a video (messenger) as then you can watch it as much and whenever you like? To which he replied I don't know why you have to be like this, your so difficult. I don't check snapchat for months on end to which I replied snapchat is the last thing I think about in a day. Like I just don't understand how he then continues to say I'm a horrible person, difficult, may as well just split now, all this horrible shit that just absolutely deflates me.

I have type 1 diabetes which is the most mentally draining thing in my life,I clean up after him like I'm his mother, I'm a stay at home mum with our 2 year old, currently pregnant with our second child, I'm tired. I'm insecure.im drained.im lonely.

Yes I try to avoid social media as it makes me super insecure (especially the shit I've seen on his phone)maybe that's deep down why I don't want to get back on snapchat, subconsciously know it will send me back to feeling more down and insecure then usual?

Not to mention he says all these nasty words and proceeds to fall asleep within 15-20 minutes, leaving me all would up and upset.

Guess what im asking is am I being unreasonable or is he being an asshole?