Would you be concerned??!! Husband gay??

My husband says he’s gay once a week. Like out of the blue he will just say “I’m gay” but not like he’s coming out he just says it. He says it even more so when he drinks. Ill ask if he’s hungry and he’ll say “idk but I am gay” or when he’s stressed he dead ass says “ugh I’m gay I’m gay I’m gay” 💀💀”

Then the other day, he told me he’d be down for “butt stuff” but I will say I told him I won’t continue to do anal until he has something shoved up his ass and see how it feels. He doesn’t believe me that it is uncomfortable and he assures me it feels good. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

So for the first time in 9 years he told me he’d be down to try it.. if he shaves first 🤣

Y’all idk! He is obsessed with butt stuff, says he’s gay all the time, he is a bit feminine as well but I never thought much of it !

How would y’all feel if your husband has been saying stuff like that?