Young girls trying to conceive

Is it just me or does it break your heart to see a lot of young girls on this app trying to conceive? I mean don't get me wrong I'm not here to judge anyone at all. That is not my intention. It's just that these girls jave their whole lives ahead of them and they're about to make on of the most important decisions of their lives and don't know it yet. I'm pregnant with my third I'm 30 and I was 21 when I had my son he was my first. I was scared out of mind! I remember after my son was about 6 months my cousin called to tell me she was pregnant she just turned 16 a month earlier, she asked me "does it hurt ro have a baby that's what I'm worried about the most" REALLY? "DOES IT HURT?"!!! Seriously?! My response was simple and honest "Yes it hurts you'll never feel pain again like that in your life! But that's not the only thing you should be worried about! You know why I was so scared to death of being pregnant? Not because I was afraid of how bad it was going to hurt but because from this moment on I am going to be responsible for a human being! I'm going to be responsible for who this person becomes one day! Everything in my life is going to change! And it all falls on me!" and who was I to make those kinds of decisions? I was a kid myself yes I was21 but I was going to college full time working full time it wasn't going to be easy. Yes I wouldn't change it for the world... And my cousin will tell you the same thing if you asked her now, shes 21. She said she thought her boyfriend would stay with her if she got pregnant, he didn't. She's doing okay now struggling but okay. she loves her kids and she does the best she can. But she always said if she could do things differently she would've waited. The point is if you're a young teenager trying to start a family is not you should be thinking about. You girls have your entire life ahead of you and keep in mind it's the only life you get. There is no going back or second chances. Please just know your worth!!! You're worth having a life worth living!!