Advice please ftm
I just gave birth a little over 24 hours ago. I’m concerned because I overheard my boyfriend talking to his mom and she was saying how she planned on taking a week or so off work to stay home and help me with my newborn. However the part I’m struggling with is she was saying how I could deal with postpartum depression or whatever. Which, yeah sure I could? Do I feel that way now? No. She says she went thru it and knows what it looks like blah blah. Well that kind of bothers me to think I might have something wrong in the future. I don’t think she necessarily needs to plan for it to happen. I’ve always been on edge about his family and their motives for me and my son. Especially since he was just born only because we don’t really have the best past. I think mostly I’m scared of them overstepping the boundaries because that alone could be a way to get me to snap. Anyways I’m not even sure the best way to approach the situation at all.
C really take a chill pill? Nothing has even happened yet. I think you took my post the wrong way. I’m a human being who has feelings clearly. I’m not saying I don’t appreciate her help or support, I’m literally wondering if it’s too much or she’s trying to over step what should I do? I don’t want Cps or anyone called on me, we have had issues and I’m just trying to be the best mom I can be for my baby. That’s all.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.