Never in the mood

I’m just exhausted, all the time. I have anxiety and OCD which I do take meds for but don’t do much at all. I work long hours, have a small farm outside of work and 2 children.

My boyfriend recently brought up how our sex life sucks. I know it does. We rarely have sex, maybe once a week. He would everyday if we could but after a long day, I seriously just want to be left alone. I never used to be this way and I know the birth control pills takes what little sex drive I have, away. I told him to get a vasectomy and he keeps saying he will and never follows through (yes, he does want to get one as we don’t want anymore kids). I get my tubes tied at the end of summer which I’m deathly afraid of but I can’t keep taking this pill that turns me into a monster lol. Also, both his and my procedure are covered fully through insurance. I just hate how we have such a good life but our sex life went down hill after our last child. We’re 30 years old, have great jobs, beautiful house, great kids but we’re struggling because of this ugh.