Anyone else’s husband being short and avoiding them because they’re sexually frustrated? No, just mine?

I’m so damn annoyed because I’m not ready. Obviously tired. We have a 3 yr old also and I’m taking care of both of them most of the time because lately he gets annoyed SUPER quick. Between that and the pressure from him for sex It’s driving me insane! Idk how to get through to him that his expectation of getting “something daily” is unfucking realistic. Im honestly just ready to throw in the towel. Any advice is appreciated because mama is over it.