My fiancé has 2 babies from his previous partner. She keeps their 4 year old, he keeps their 1 year old.

She’ll send their 4 year old to him whenever she has things to do, but he can’t do the same with their son. (1 year old). He’ll have things to do, or have things he’ll want to do with me but can’t really do it because of the baby. He tries to ask her, sometimes she will but majority of the time won’t. He doesn’t have that many family members that are able to take his son.

Anyway, she said last week she will take the baby for the weekend (this upcoming weekend). So we were excited to be able to spend time alone together, but then she finds out that I will be in town & says she can’t take their 1 year old instead. Then she starts saying how she wants to keep him under her care full time now, which is ridiculous as she barely takes the baby. It just annoys me how she can be childish & not allow him to have a break. 🙃 (she’s 21) idk I’m just annoyed lol. I was looking forward to alone time with him as we only see eachother every 2 weeks for 3 nights lol.

(I live out of town)