Im 20 hes 22. Okay so my hygiene is pretty good, I brush 2-3 times a day, more if I feel like it. I shower daily. I always wear some type of spray and deodorant. And my room is messy but NOT dirty. But my boyfriend of over 3 years doesn't have good hygiene...like at all. He doesnt brush his teeth..maybe once a week if i ask him to. He showers only if he is going out and that is rare. Its sad. I cant stand to kiss him. He expects me to put up with it and i cant. Ive told him just not politely because i resent him for it. I miss the way he use to smell and now its just repulsive. He recently got kicked out of his house in July by his sister. So he moved in with me. His old house/room was pretty amazing until we started dating. He stopped cleaning and picking up after himself. I'm not sure what went wrong. I remember him smelling so good when we first kissed. Anyways he's moved into my place with his own room and its disgusting. Trash everywhere. Its smells. I use to be able to go into his old room and everything but now I can't walk into this one. I make a bad face and walk out. I'm sorry that I react this way but its gross. I feel like its my fault for this somehow. I know being unemployed can effect a lot but I can tell his sense of self worth dropped a lot since he got kicked out.

I know I shouldn't be his mom but he is a grown man. Like cmon. Help ladies!! I love him to death but tbh we haven't made out in probably a year due to this. I can't stand it anymore.