Feeling a little hopeless. I have not been trying to conceive very long but it is still very discouraging. My husband is 14 years older than I am and he had trauma to his testicles when he was a teenager and never got medical attention. I was 14 when I noticed I only had a period every 3 or more months. I have acne and I struggle with my weight. I know I need to make an appointment with a fertility specialist for the both of us but when is the right time to schedule an appointment? We started trying in April and I have only had one period since removing my IUD. Everything I have hard so far is telling me to try for a year before making an appointment but I don’t think I can wait that long. What should I do?