Did you go through a phase while pregnant where you didnt want affection/sex from your husband?

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My first pregnancy I was great- happy, energized, I felt normal. This pregnancy (19 weeks) I have been sick, super tired and just grumpy. My husband is being his normal affectionate, loving, cuddly self and I just want my space and almost feel annoyed when he gives me affection. Did anyone else go through this?

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He wants to have the kind of sex with the foreplay, kissing, etc and I’m just like STICK IT IN. Idk if it’s the hormones or what but I don’t want all the extras right now 😭

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I fucking hated him (and still do)😌

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Yup, I couldn’t stand him. Now looking back at how much of a bitch I was makes me want to cry tbh! Lol he was always so sweet, so understanding, caring, and overall amazing especially after I was put on bed rest. I love him so much more because he put up with that and not once complained about it lol

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That is me right now! I was starting to wonder if I simply just don’t like him anymore but I think might just be the pregnancy. I am 34 weeks so it is not that enjoyable

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I’m 19w6d and we are JUST starting to get along. I’ve been so annoyed with him. What’s been helping is giving him my “base mood” for the day. When I can feel it’s gonna be a bad day I will say “it’s a red day” so he knows that I’m angry for no reason today, watch out. Communicating this has really really helped. I’m so sensitive to smell right now that I’ve been sleeping in another room as well. Not in our bed. It’s in the basement and it’s musky down there. I let him know this isn’t a him thing, it’s the smells making me feel sick thing. Communicating has been hard but it helps soooo much.

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Oh i want the affection but not interested in sex

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I dislike him, but my hormones are crazy and all I want him for is sex :/ sounds so horrible huh? Lol

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Accidentally hit no but 100% yes. Didn't want to be touched, kissed, cuddled, or anything until around 18 weeks and things started going back to normal.

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Since I'm on pelvic rest my emotions and affection toward him specifically have been all over the place. Very normal with all the hormones though.

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You’re not alone! I literally never want to have sex lol, I know he hates it but I don’t want to have sex if I’m not going to be into it and I figure he wouldn’t either.

Did you go through a phase while pregnant where you didnt want affection/sex from your husband?

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